和外企相比，国企有一点需要肯定，工作压力相对小一点，留出来的放空和思考的时间都会多一点；原来这才是我要的自由，以前竟然没有意识到。。。

最近看了一本书，《南怀瑾演讲录》（上海人民出版社）。南怀瑾，温州乐清人，说起来还是老乡；从过商、破过产、办过报、打过仗、教过书，在台湾、香港、美国都生活过，被一些人奉为中国当代孔子。该书收录了南师90岁之后的五次演讲，这些演讲一方面包括了他对中国文化、读书、工商业发展、经济等领域的独到见地，另一方面也带领听众（读者）学习了诸如《千字文》、《孟子》、《盐铁论》一类的经典古文，深入浅出，发人深省（当然对古文学习那几段会看得比较累一点）。

印象比较深的一段是他讲男女之情不是爱，并将男女之情分为三个层面:欲、爱、情，一为荷尔蒙层面，二为自私占有层面，三为超越爱、欲的相对无私层面。挺有意思的。或许我们应该回想一下，对曾经或现在的某某们究竟是出于哪些层面的，以好好认识自己，呵呵。当然这本书的经典之处远不止此！小姑娘怀春才把这段记得那么牢啊，啊哈哈哈。

X总曾和我说过，他向南师求过学，当过几天门徒；据称，此人的作息有点颠倒，睡得极少，过着像神仙一般的生活。感觉得意的、失意的商人都有点向他求经的倾向；那么，难得的几次演讲记录，翻翻至少有益吧。

比起看书，我更爱看电影，觉着大部分当代人习惯浅思考，me too^^！！！最近看了《死亡诗社》（Dead Poets Society，又译《春风化雨》），罗宾·威廉姆斯主演，但不是喜剧哦。剧中经典的台词是:"Seize the day, and make ur life extraordinary"。这话虽然有点说教意味，但是不能因此就否定它的经典，而且欣慰地发现很符合我的性格和风格:D

觉得片中比较撼人的一幕是，同学们应老师的要求，站在“讲台桌”上看着教室，体会不同角度带来的不同视野；当然还有结尾，用了非常极端的手法体现生命的意义，很多人看了或许会感到伤心。剧情我就不透露那么多咧，都讲完还看个P呀@_@。

下面转帖一篇很精准又没有剧透的影评，不知道作者是谁，但可以看出是用心写的。

　　“He was their inspiration. He made their lives extraordinary.

　　There's so much good about this movie. The first time I saw it I watched it solely for plot and I loved it. Now I've seen it again and watched Peter Weir's filming and timing which is also great. Robin Williams is a terrific actor when he's serious. He proved it in Good Will Hunting but he proved it first here. If you liked that movie and your liking it had something to do with Williams than you will like this one. The plot is about a number of students who are taught by Williams about life. They are taught how to enjoy themselves. This ends up causing great controversy among the heads of the school. The students are terrific and even the dialogue is great. This is a movie that I can't imagine anyone not liking. It is good in every way.

　　There are certain films that get under your skin, never to come out. They change your life, subtly altering your perceptions of reality, almost always for the better.

　　Dead Poets Society is one of those few films.

　　I saw the movie back when I was in High School. I had a teacher who told us that we really needed to watch it; in fact, it was our "homework" for the day. We didn't need to bring back a report, or talk about it in class. All he asked from us was to watch it, make up our own mind about it, and that was it. As you can imagine, many friends of mine didn't watch it at all; I did. And yes, I feel I changed a bit from there on.

　　Back when you are young, you never really stop to think what in the world you are doing with your life. You simply live for the day, hope your grades will be enough to pass, and that's it. Long term thinking involves maybe flirting with a girl. Nothing more. What this film showed me was that we have the responsibility and the joy of being alive in this planet. That we are dust, and we will go back to it, so we have precious little time to make a difference. That we have a moral obligation to "seize the day, and make our lives extraordinary" (my favorite quote in all movie history). That the world, basically is ours. That the only limitations are within ourselves, and that we owe it to us to fight, to rebel against conformity, to change what we hate and keep what we love. That living in this world is a beautiful responsibility, and that only cowards dare not to change it for the better.

　　The fact that the cast was basically my age, and was passing through the same dilemmas and situations I was facing made it all so much more powerful.

　　So here I sit, 12 years from that day. I still don't think I have seized the day completely. But I keep on trying; I always will. I wonder how many people were transformed by this gem of a movie; I hope many.

10 out of 10. A definitive masterpiece.”

呃，好文长的我啊。。。最后讲一部连续剧。由于我超爱看美剧，不出意外，说的也是一部美剧，The Unit，国内翻译成《秘密行动小组》。记得在去武汉调研的飞机上，我就看的这部片，邻座的大叔总是忍不住瞄几眼，最后干脆和他一起看了，呵呵。是一部讲述美国特种部队工作及其家庭生活的连续剧，包含了该有的一切：暴力、枪战、反恐、血腥、婚姻、背叛。。。没有时间的人千万别看哦，电视剧嘛，看着容易上瘾，看完容易空虚，繁华看尽，落寞将至。像我这样同时看Lost、Gossip girl、Desperate housewives、PB、How I met ur mother，Criminal Minds以及好几部真人秀的人是不多滴。

最近总有动笔的冲动，其实挺好，到老了想回忆也有些依据；说严肃点还可以和自己对话，认识自己。另外，看到EC和SSH对我的评价，什么童言高智啊，犀利可爱呀，呗喜欢呀！学一句上海话，不要太自恋哦*_*